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About rites and sacraments¶
Human hearts are not very flexible. Once they are used to a given way of celebration, they usually have difficult to change it. We all have a temptation to say “this is a wrong way of celebrating”, when it is not “as I was taught”.
Compare a Holy Mass, a mass in a charismatic Emmanuel community, a service in a Baptist community, and Orthodox or Lutheran Sunday celebration.
Announcing the Gospel is more important than insisting on a given rite.
The Synodal Church will foster a diversity of rites where a faithful who grew up in one synodal community can find a place in any other synodal community.
Sacraments are visible symbols, not contracts. They are a life-long holy warranty given by the Church, but only as long as the receiver wants them. They are a gift of the Church to the faithful.
When somebody gives you a book, but you fail to read it, then the book won’t work for you. You can fail to read a book for many reasons. For example because it was stolen before you had the time to read it. Or because you didn’t care. Which just means that you didn’t understand that this book would be important.
For all life-long sacraments (baptism, marriage, priesthood) there will be a way to revoke them. And this revoking is done by the receiver(s) of the sacrament, the church has no veto, her job is to register the decision of having revoked. We cannot say that your failure of receiving this sacrament is a sin. We can be sorry for you, but we cannot blame you.
Note that while baptism and priesthood requires a single human to revoke it, marriage needs both partners to agree on the divorce.
Inspired (among others) by In Catholic Italy, ‘de-baptism’ is gaining popularity, Teachings evolve and sacraments can fail